My partner Elizabeth McClung at Screw Bronze has been battling Multiple System Atrophy (unofficial diagnosis) since December 2006. She has been writing about her experiences, frustrations and joys and many of her readers have been supporting her emotionally for which I am very grateful. She has been asked several times whether the readers can help in other ways.
This blog is in response to 'how can we help?'
As ideas arise (and feel free to send me yours!) I'll post them here. I'll also give you updates on how things are going whether it be Beth's health, the medical bureaucracy or just coping day to day.
Financially speaking, we have a two large medical expenses coming up - a portable oxygen concentrator and a trip to Seattle for a consult.
Since April 2007 Beth has been using oxygen in canisters. When she started, her oxygen saturation levels were above the threshold to get free oxygen, so we've been paying for oxygen canisters and the rental of the regulator which fits on the canisters. At first she only needed oxygen an hour or two a week, but as time has passed the need has increased to 3-6 hours a day. Even with Pacific Blue Cross paying the majority of the cost, it adds up. We got a break this spring when someone from the Canadian Red Cross came by to deliver some loaner equipment. Beth got to talking with him and he said it looked like she needed an oxygen concentrator and he'll bring one over. The CRC doesn't loan concentrators - he just wanted to give it away. It's a huge, loud, heat generating beast, about 20 years old, but has been a real life saver for Beth and a cost saver for me. We keep it in the living room and have a 50 foot hose that reaches the study and the bedroom so she can wear it wherever she goes indoors.
We still need the canisters though - as late at night I'm afraid the concentrator will wake the neighbours. We use a large canister for nights. And we need the wine bottle size canisters for when Beth goes outdoors. She can carry one canister in the pouch under her chair and it will give her about 40 minutes of oxygen. Needless to say, she can't go far or be out long unless she has multiple canisters. This means our weekend trips to visit our adopted sister Cheryl involve me carrying one large and 3 small canisters in my hiking pack.
When planning for our Japan trip this spring, getting oxygen was one of my greatest challenges. We ended up renting a portable oxygen concentrator and it was WONDERFUL. It was small enough to fit in the backpack on Beth's wheelchair, was quiet, and with 2 batteries lasted about 6 hours. We'd recharge it each night and we were always with oxygen no matter where we went.
We want to buy a portable oxygen concentrator and use it all the time - indoors and out. We've got pre-approval from Pacific Blue Cross to pay about 75% of the cost. We just need to come up with the rest. The unit we want is an EverGo by Phillips Respironics as it has some of the longest battery life, is one of the smallest units and can be taken on board flights - it we ever manage another vacation which involves an airline.
Our second major expense coming up is a visit to the Booth Gardner Parkinson Center in Seattle for a consult. We anticipate around $1000 for the trip, not including any medical tests. Our GP has agreed to fill out a referral to Health Insurance BC as they may fund the actual consult. Fingers crossed! The Centre specializes in Movement Disorders and Multiple System Atrophy, what we suspect Beth has, is one of the diseases they have experience with.
Several readers have asked how they could donate to these expenses so I've added a paypal link to the right. It's very easy to use - you need an email address and either a credit card or paypal account. You may also add special instructions if you want to specify what you’d like your donation used for and I’ll do my best to honour that request.
I want to say again, how much I appreciate the support you have given both of us. Thanks so much for caring – it’s so badly needed when you’ve been the human ping pong ball in the medical system.
Cheers!
Linda
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Nice intro other sis. Hopefully I can put the future career asa bank robber on hold now...
The Blog looks great Linda. I am going to keep looking for resources! Take care!
Laura
Great post and I'm so glad we finally beat down your resistance! ;) I get that it's hard to accept money, but the two of you give us so much that I'm happy to contribute. And if there's one thing I've learned, it's that a lot of small donations can make something big happen.
I am so excited to see you have this blog and the Paypal button. I'm so excited, I blogged about it.
Good wishes, happy thoughts, thanks abundant for letting me help even just a bit!
nice introduction. Thanks for letting us help.
Honestly, I 'm not sure if I can afford sending money, and don't understand the paypal thing. But will see.
Good thing his blog. Seattle specialist sounds great (though that should have happened like a year ago or so.)
Hi Linda! The blog name is absolutely perfect. And your introduction is lovely.
Okay, it may feel like charity, but Beth has given us a lot, and so have you, that we WANT to help. It wasn't you asking, it was us offering. And you can always offer to pay us back when you can afford to. :)
Cheryl, please don't rob any banks; the mere thought is giving me visions of Beth trying to break you out of jail. From her wheelchair. With a long hose to the big concentrator still in Victoria... not a pretty thought, trust me.
Linda, I'm having a little trouble with the Paypal form, but I've emailed you privately about that, and I'm sure the bugs will be evicted soon. THANK YOU! for letting us help, dear lady.
Zen hugs for you too,
Neil
Hey Linda, if I spread the word a little bit about this, would that be a really bad thing?
Hi Linda, good that you've got your own blog, as it must be difficult for Beth once money starts getting mentioned. This way, you can let all Beth's supporters and friends "out there" in cyberspace know how they - we - can help.
Love & peace
Thanks everyone, for your feedback and donations. Will try to write another short blog tonight about the donations and the t-shirts several of you have asked about.
The girl: Thanks - feel free to spread the word.
Thanks the girl for letting me know about this blog!
Linda - thank you for doing this. I've got so much from reading Beth's blog that it's awful to no be able to DO anything. As I'm in the UK, a visit would be pointless as the cost would pay for the Seattle trip probably!
Is there anything else that is needed, even practical issues involved with a trip to Seattle? Anyone you need to get in contact with, anything like that?
Hi Linda! As soon as I pay all my bills and know how much I'm going to have left over for October, I will send a donation.
It's not charity, it's friends helping friends.
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